It’s as if it happened overnight – and you never saw it coming.

If your spouse is overwhelmed by a midlife crisis you’re not dealing with a “normal” person anymore.

Traditional marriage counseling won’t work. Books won’t work; even positive behavior-based courses won’t work. Don’t bother asking your spouse to work on the marriage with you.

So what can you do? Can it really be over after all these years?

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The idea is simple – heal yourself, heal your marriage.

Over the past 40 years, I’ve been developing a way to help men and women in your situation change the tense and negative environment between them and the person they thought they knew who has suddenly become somebody else…your spouse!

My system will give you a way to…

  • Learn to attract your spouse like no one else can
  • Turn yourself into the most desirable man or woman in your spouse’s eyes
  • Get rid of the bad feelings between you and your spouse

I’ve been fine-tuning my Environment Changer system for the last 15 years and it’s been working extremely well for spouses who’ve said “this is NOT the person I married!”

Larry Bilotta
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Let’s talk…

I’m willing to introduce you to the idea of being an Environment Changer and answer your questions during a free private 1-hour call

Look – if you’re like most people faced with a spouse who says it’s over, you’ve tried everythingbut nothing works. Marriage counseling, books, seminars, courses, pastors – there is no rationalizing with them and to make matters worse, you don’t know why!  I do!

 “Once size fits all” marriage programs won’t cut it in situations like yours.

My Environment Changer system is entirely different. See what my students have to say in their own words. This is very specialized stuff – but it doesn’t work for everyone.

Is this approach right for you?

This system IS for you if:

  • You want to avoid making the same mistakes in the future
  • You want to wipe out the old obstacles and connect to your spouse again physically and emotionally
  • You are ready to become the man or woman your spouse was first attracted to
  • You want to break the chain of family chaos and protect your kids from a life of it

This system is NOT for you if:

  • You refuse to move past the anger and resentment over past issues
  • You insist you are right and your partner is wrong.
  • You have “one foot out the door” and have nearly given up
  • You are unwilling to apply unconventional techniques and methods you’ve never heard before
  • You do not believe you can transform your marriage without your spouses’ participation
  • You are not ready to do something right now

Here’s how to get started…

If you’re serious about saving your marriage or have questions, register for a private one hour call to see if my approach is a good fit for you. I will help you make sense of your situation and so you can understand how you arrived at this point in your marriage and what you can do about it.

This won’t happen overnight.

It doesn’t matter if your spouse files for divorce tomorrow or 1 year from now.

You can always get another marriage, another legal document…but you can’t get another person just like your spouse.

Sure, most people will tell you “it’s time to move on” or “you can do better”. But if you’re ready to become an Environment Changer, then you’re someone who can’t see yourself with any other person than your spouse.

So if you have the patience, the persistence and motivation to win your spouse back, I’ll show you how!

To a less stressful and more fulfilling marriage,

Larry Bilotta
Founder, Environment Changer course

If you want your family back and you’re ready to do what it takes…

I’ll review applications on a first come, first-served basis.

Build the foundation for a deeper love than ever before.