Today, because Mike knows the secrets of becoming an Environment Changer, he can finally think clearly, and in just 1 month, his wife has shifted her mind set from "it's over"...to "give me some time to think thinks through".

For Mike, this was an exciting step in the right direction because his wife is very stubborn and set in her ways. As Mike puts it, his wife has "NEVER changed her mind in their 16 years of being together."

Mike from Montreal, Canada

Josh from Houston, Texas was separated from his wife for 6 months and discovered that she had filed for divorce on December 23rd of 2008.

When John discovered his wife had filed for divorce, he began suffering from depression. After practicing the course of action defined in the Environment Changer program for just two months, John's wife Christy noticed a significant difference in him.

Today, as of August 3rd, 2010, John and his wife Christy are now actively in the process of reconciling the marriage!

Josh from Houston, Texas

Jill was within moments of committing suicide. She had written her goodbye letters and as she puts it, she was ready to "sign off".

Jill sought out numerous therapists who prescribed pill after pill, medicating her for most of her adult life. Jill was severly depressed over the traumatic and emotionally devastating childhood abuse she endured from her father.

Then she hit a new low when her infant son died.

Jill felt she failed her husband, failed herself and instantly felt her father's words telling her she was no-good and worthless. She felt she was a bad woman and a bad mother.

At that point Jill began "losing it". To make matters worse, Jill broke her neck as a result of a previous abuse from years ago.

After suffering from a painful neck injury, enduring extensive surgery and being heavily medicated with pain pills, Jill lost all hope. She tormented her husband until he left and at this point, Jill sought out help from Larry Bilotta through his Environment Changer program.

Though Jill describes herself as a highly skeptical woman, she gave the program a chance and after just the fourth call in the program, she remembers having an epiphany and waking up the next morning with hope, something she had lived her entire life without.

The following day it was the same thing and suddenly she realized she was smiling. Jill suddently stopped taking all the pills, she no longer suffered from asthma attacks and still hasn't had one to this day because she no longer lives with the black cloud that clung to her life for so long.

It has been one year since she began the program and still to this day, Jill wakes up every day happy - even when she knows there will be challenges ahead - because the insights she learned in the program have now become second nature.

Emotional intelligence literally gave Jill the happiness that 25 years of therapy told her was NOT possible.

Jill from California

"My name is Marco Pezzutti. I am an Italian living in Sydney Australia.  I am 45 years old, an IT professional and I have two young children. Ten months ago my wife announced she wanted a divorce.  I was devastated. I had to move back in with my parents.  My life spiraled out of control and I became very angry, had huge headaches and cried a lot.  I had to go on anti depressants and started seeing a psychologist every week.  My weight ballooned to 98 kg, from my usual weight of 87kg.

I was a nervous wreck and couldn’t concentrate because of my deep depression.  I found Larry Bilotta’s site, and began his program.  Within my fourth call with him, my emotional state began to improve.  After I finished his Environment Changer course, I am calmer and rediscovered who I really am.  I see life through a different perspective that changed how I feel every day.  Even my psychologist even asked, “What book are you reading?”  I just answered with a big grin on my face. I train harder at the gym now because I’m happy.   All I say to friends who ask is, do your family and yourself a favour and get through the Environment Changer course.  Change how you see yourself. As Roman Emperor Cicero said it, "the greatest society we have is our family".  Let’s nourish it by being the good person we really are at heart."

Marco Pezzutti, Environment Changer
Sydney, Australia

Carrie from Orange County, California has now found the confidence to return to school. Married for just 2 years, Carrie sought out help after "losing herself" just a year in a half into her marriage.

She felt miserable and unfulfilled in her marriage.

Carrie felt that she needed to suffer through her marriage or RUN , but what she really wanted was for her husband to start meeting her emotional needs. The problem was, she didn't know how to motivate him to do it.

The more she tried, the more she drove her husband away. Carrie began a self loathing cycle after realizing her marriage wasn't anything like what she had wanted it to be. Instead of building each other up, they were tearing each other apart.

Carrie felt like a complete failure until one day she didn't even recognize herself anymore. She remembered being vibrant, energetic and cheerful, but when she looked in the mirror what she saw was a shell of her former self, just weighted down with hopelessness and despair.

Five months prior to this recording, since Carrie's husband wouldn't consider counseling, she sought out help from Larry Bilotta. Today she believes she is an even better person than she was BEFORE she got married.

Carrie now has her confidence back along with her joy, energy, faith and hope. Carrie used to accept that highs and lows were just a part of life, but now realizes that YOU can control how you feel and take back the power by making conscious choices.

Though her husband currently isn't interested in any kind of counseling, Carrie is still married which she believes to be a miracle since five months ago, she was talking to several divorce attorneys thinking that was her only option.

Carrie now sees her husband making progress in becoming the kind of spouse she knew he could be - and he has not changed one bit.

Because Carrie can now control her "inner world" as she puts it, she can now influence everyone else around her and believes that her whole life has been transformed.

Carrie from Orange County, California

"I am 40 years old with 4 small children: 10, 8, 5, and 3. In November 2008 I was planning a move to another part of the country with my husband of 14 years (a man I have known for 22 years) when the worst thing possible happened - he gave up on our marriage and our family.

I was in shock - I did not realize it at the time. I began to research what I could do since now he lived over 900 miles away from us. This was a man that I did not know how to communicate with anymore - it was very scary for me and the children.

I contacted Larry and when he called me back, that was the start of a new life for me. He was the first person I ever spoke with who could see me for who I am inside and he saw me as a GOOD person. He also knew my husband just like I did and could explain things that I could never put my finger on as to the big picture.

Larry gave me the tools to look at life differently. It was okay to be a human but there was a way not to get sucked into the matrix affect of living off of negative feedback or victimization.

I found a way to look at divorce differently and in doing so I am changing the way people and my children respond to me. I now have friends that I never knew I had - I have a village that has surrounded my family who support me - life is funny and fun!

I have found my friends, many who have PhD's in human services, using Larry's tools that I have incorporated into my daily life and motto to explain things to colleagues and children!

My husband and I are still separated for now but someday that will change. The children and I have learned that we still love this person who is so angry with me. We recognize that in each of us shines a beautiful light that we can share with everyone we come in contact with - it starts with me - I am an Environment Changer."

Kim from Charlotte, North Carolina